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A Call fo Prayer
It’s not something I usually do – to put something serious on this blog…. But somehow this situation has struck me and I thought I’ll put this in.
The Taliban is currently holding 22 Korean hostages – Christian workers who were doing medical and relief work in Afghanistan and was abducted by the Taliban. Their leader Pastor Bae Hyung Kyu was executed last week. His body was found on a highway with 10 bullets in him. He leaves behind a wife and a daughter. For more information and current updates on the situation, I found Eugene Cho’s blog extremely useful…..
http://eugenecho.wordpress.com/2007/07/29/prayer-for-korean-hostages-in-afghanistan/
Let us unite now and pray for the lives of these people that something good will come out of all this.
A Blast from the Past
Wow… it’s amazing what the internet galaxy can do these days…. This morning I received a comment on my email with regards one of my posts below and it was from Mona G… and really the only Mona I know and lost contact when I lived in the UK and she moved to the US …. was from way back when I was bumming around for my first 3 months after the ‘O’ Levels and so I replied to her comment to double check if it was her and lo and behold I got an email back from her confirming that it was her!!! Far out… I found my long lost friend…. I’m absolutely stoked!!! Man… we had some crazy times together! Let’s see…
1. we (together with another friend) sent Valentine Day cards to all the guys in our class – that freaked the guys out
2. when Mona and I went to my cousin’s house one day, she ate a piece of the dry DOG FOOD after I dared her
3. we (and half the class) used to sneak out of classes and went to my house to chill and got into trouble…. My dad backed us up though
4. Hanging out at Brannigans in our school uniforms
5. Eating at my grandma’s kitchen
I’m still stoked…. I dont think I’ll be doing much work today
Attitude and Tolerance
OK… so for those who know me will know that I have an extreme low tolerance for people… people who I think are ‘dumb’, irritating, gets on my nerves, fake, superficial, etc. For these people, I just put on a fake smile or fake expression that those who know me will be able to pick out when I give these fake smiles or sometimes, I just ignore them. If they can be fake then so can I. There are quite a few people in that category
Having said that, I make no apologies for being who I am, friends can either accept me for who I am or dont bother being my friend.
Anyway, last week there was a farewell dinner & bowling night for a friend who will be moving to Singapore for work. Actually he said he will only be in Singapore for one year… so really, to a certain extent I didn’t quite understand the big ‘hoo hah’ abt this farewell that had 50 people attending – the organisers admitted that it was like a mini nightmare wedding…. and we kept getting msn and email reminders that if we bail out of the dinner we still have to fork out $15.
So off I went to this farewell… the only positive thing was that it was just down the road from my house. When I got there, the first thing that irritated me was people who I thought are my friends did not reserve a seat for me at the TS3 table…. but consolation came when I saw J&ST sitting at another table and so I headed off to sit with them. Later on, as the table filled up, but it was filled with some people who fall under the above category of people I find irritating…. so immediately, the fake smile and facial expression lighted up.
As dinner was abt to commence, the organisers realised that we had 12 people on our table and there was 7 on another table… and so they started asking 3 people to move to the other table. OK here’s the stupid part… the 7 on that table, was from another group… so really, wouldnt we be uncomfortable moving to an unknown table – like I said it was like a mini wedding…. but on the other hand, I thought it would be only courtesy that the last 3 who arrived on our table should do the right thing and move to the other table – afterall we actually made room for one of that other 3 people that came last…. but no… they just sat on their arses…
Next, JT tried to get himself and 2 other guys to go to the other table of 7 – but one of the other guys being a total wimp did not want to be moved as he wanted to be seated with his other friend and gf. So that idea was canned. By that time, I was getting seriously sick of the whole thing. Sure I could have said I’ll move, but hey why should I move when I wasnt the last to arrive?
So in the end, nobody moved and then comments were said that since there was 12 of us and food was only for 10 on each table, there might be insufficient food but they will pass down food from the table of 7. So by that time, I got tired of the whole issue and decided to walk out of the dinner. So walked out I did. ST said to me that I wasted my $15 but seriously, I would rather have wasted my $15 than to sit with a whole bunch of hypocrites who call themselves leaders in the church or serve in some aspect of the various church committees. After I walked out I sent txt msgs to 2 people telling them I had left the dinner and they didn’t bother to reply straight away, rather waited till after the whole thing to send me a msg on msn and to reply at abt 11 ish. On hindsight, I think that was a stupid thing for me to have done.
What finally topped it was at cell on Saturday, the same friend that I considered a friend but didn’t bother to reserve a seat for me in the first place commented to me that me walking out showed that I had a ‘bad attitude’ for walking out. However, this person who said that is at the moment battling an attitude of being anti-cell and anti-church which I think it’s worse than me with an attitude of walking out coz I was sick of people… but hey, who am I to comment since I have a bad attitude?
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